Relationship Ted Talk!

A great ted talk video on happiness and relationships. http://www.ted.com/talks/robert_waldinger_what_makes_a_good_life_lessons_from_the_longest_ study_on_happiness/transcript?language=en

Inquiry vs Inquistion

Inquiry vs inquisition Can you remember a time in your relationship when your partner has opposed or disappointed you or you have felt attacked? Do you notice what comes up for you in those times? Perhaps anger, rejection, self-righteous indignation? Research has...

Siding with the enemy

Siding with the enemy Ever been in the situation where you tell your partner about a frustrating situation with your boss your partner sides with your boss? Frustrating, right? So what is going on here? Well often it is actually about discomfort with feelings. Here’s...

BEING RIGHT OR BEING HAPPY???

Being Right or being Happy? In relationships, being right and being happy simply do not go together! In the context of relationships, if you have been proved right, then your partner has been proved wrong and while you might get a little momentary self-righteous...