Displacing blame-Its not me-It’s you!!!!

IT’S NOT ME-IT’S YOU! I’m ok but there’s something very wrong with you! When couples are in conflict, each person has a tendency to see themselves as right and their partner as defective or wrong.  This makes sense, why else would they be in a...

Unsolicited Advice

Stop and think for a minute about what happens when your partner comes to you with a stress or problem in their life. How do you feel?  Do you feel anxious because you don’t want them to feel unhappy?  Do you feel worried about how the situation might impact on you or...